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Nov 17, 20246 min read
What's Wrong with this Picture?
A beautiful photo of a girl and her horse. But look a little closer. All is not as it seems. This is a younger me and my first...
reclaimconnection
Oct 16, 20243 min read
Diva is Yawning!
Why is it a big deal that Diva is finally yawning? Because yawning is a sign of relaxation, and this is another step in Diva’s trauma...
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Sep 13, 20242 min read
Goodbye, Holly
There are horses that come into your life in plain packaging and it is not until you get to know them that you realize how special they...
reclaimconnection
Jul 8, 20242 min read
Being Outside of the Box
I have a confession to make – I am venturing further and further outside the box. Manjiri Latey came to my attention as a guest on...
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May 30, 20247 min read
Working through Near-Death Experiences . . . and not with Psychedelics!
“Coming back from the dead is not quite the same as coming back to life.” Sarah Winman Psychedelics are the latest rage for working with...
reclaimconnection
Feb 18, 20245 min read
What Do You Do When Your Horse Starts to Show Her Age?
Ella is 25 years old this year. Now that she is retired from being a show horse and lives outside year-round, she grows a lot of winter...
reclaimconnection
Dec 30, 20233 min read
Endings and Beginnings
Setting Sun Over Round Pen This photo reminds me that each day now we get a few more minutes of daylight and are ever so slowly marching...
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Dec 17, 20233 min read
I'm Now a SEP!
I have now completed all my training, consult sessions, personal sessions and have received my certificate as a Somatic Experiencing...
reclaimconnection
Aug 31, 20231 min read
What Do You Do When You See the Dead End Sign?
A first-time client recently was successfully following my directions to Reclaim Connection when she saw the Dead End sign. Thinking...
reclaimconnection
Jul 29, 20232 min read
What Can Horses Teach Us About Leadership?
One of the great joys of being able to keep my horses at home is being able to watch them from my kitchen window. I am slowly learning...
reclaimconnection
Jun 20, 20231 min read
Feeling Safe
Feeling safe sounds like such a simple thing. But for those of us who grew up in chaotic environments, perhaps with parents or caregivers...
reclaimconnection
Mar 21, 20233 min read
Spring is in the Air! What’s Coming Up at Reclaim Connection?
After a winter with lots of cold spells but (thankfully) no major blizzards, it feels like Spring is finally on its way. How do I know? ...
reclaimconnection
Mar 1, 20233 min read
What is Congruence and What Does it Have to Do with Horses?
I have seen it over and over again – someone goes into the roundpen with a horse and the horse totally ignores them. The person tries...
reclaimconnection
Feb 14, 20232 min read
Sole Abscess - A Metaphor for Life?
I was surprised by the number of views to my original Instagram Reel of soaking Holly’s sore foot. For some reason that resonated with...
reclaimconnection
Jan 27, 20232 min read
The Transformation of Diva - Final (?) Update
After a year and a half of trauma-informed horsemanship with Diva, I finally feel that we are at a place where most of the stored trauma...
reclaimconnection
Jan 3, 20235 min read
Why are Emotions Important?
We live in a culture that values rationality and intellect over emotionality. Many of us grew up in families where expressing certain...
reclaimconnection
Dec 12, 20223 min read
The Transformation of Diva - Update 4 Recognizing the Freeze Response
One of the tricky bits of being with a client is recognizing when the client is calm, or if they are actually in the freeze response. ...
reclaimconnection
Nov 23, 20225 min read
They Come Out the Way They Went In
One of the principles of trauma recovery that Peter Levine formulated was that ‘they come out the way they went in.’ What he means is –...
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Nov 14, 20222 min read
To Be Curious, You Must Feel Safe . . . Whether a Horse or a Human
Much of what I learn about neuroscience and trauma recovery I get to see for real with my horses. After all, horses and humans have...
reclaimconnection
Nov 6, 20224 min read
Dance Like No One is Watching
Dancing with a horse is the final activity of the Eponaquest Instructor apprenticeship. My dancing was a complete failure, as I...
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